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How to Keep a Woman Happy!!
Geeljire:
Excuse me? I need to take off and get out of the computer lab.
But before I go, we should be a little bit fair-we will have to say that the comment "no woman on earth can make a Somali man happy" is so offensive. It's a very strong comment, so offensive comment, and it authomatically turns people off .
Infact, there are these types of man out there that Dr.Keyf describes as "no woman on earth can make them happy" but to stereotype every Somali man that is involved with a woman as one - .... is.. so......I lack words for that kind of ignorance...!!!
Good lucky ..
Geeljire ~
Yaxya:
i respect ur i dea Mr geelgiire ..that's true that generalization is not always right but sometimes one community can share common characters that's what i mean when i said that somali men are romantic and simple..!!
i agree wit amal that to keep men happy u have 2 deal carefully wit his stomach lol ;D but this one alone not enough to make us happy lol
Amal:
Geeljire
I did not stereo type all Somali men, I said some/most but never used ALL. so brother easy with the sensitive thing. I think the idea of making a woman or a man happy depends on how a person defines "Happiness". My idea of happiness might be different from yours. Yes my book of happiness exist but its more more complicated!!
Geeljire:
Dear sister,
I have posted the above comments because it was a matter of having two opposite comments. One from our brother Yaxya and the other from Dr.Keyf, and I sometimes talk about.
I am not into sensitive thing.More importantly ,I am mad at no one ..besides my writing was meant to have a funny, light-hearted side. It was just my observation and I wanted to know what Yaxya, Dr.Keyf and others thought of it.
Anyways, what do we discuss in these forums? Isn't what we "personally" think about something? So, how are we supposed to not take personally the issue we are raising?
Darling, although you do not know me, being in to sensitive thing or as that matter my attitude is not the problem. I haven't written to be psychoanalyzed, but I wanted you to bring some light into why can't be there a woman who can make happy enough a Somali man in your opinion. So, if you "have no idea" on the matter of what and whose comments have been addressed, you should have skipped it.
But that is all fine.
"Yes my book of happiness exist but it’s more complicated!!" what do you consider being complicated? Is there such thing at all? Isn't it more about being able to compromise and make concession with the person you think can fit your way of life?
You have never heard that line you have never heard?
Sis, don't wait to hear it because men will never tell you "sorry, but I am looking for a person who have this type of book of happiness".
Dear sister, I got nothing to say to you but just consider your self to be lucky and be fair to your self as I see you are not fair to your self. You are missing out on good opportunities; you know you are in your heart.
My advice to you is get going right know and start treating your self fairly because you are only cheating your self. Aimless defensive technique is not going to get you any where.
Kind regards,
Geeljire ~
Geeljire:
--- Quote from: Yaxya on April 03, 2008, 06:22:43 AM ---i respect ur i dea Mr geelgiire ..that's true that generalization is not always right but sometimes one community can share common characters that's what i mean when i said that somali men are romantic and simple..!!
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;D ;D On the flip side , sxb Yaxya, you are right . It isn't stereotypical.
Ai ai ai somalimen are "romantic" and "simple".LOOOOOL
Keep smilling ,
Geeljire ~
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