The Impossible People

[Amal]

 The sponge- they are egocentric always looking out for  themselves. They are consumed by their own need and cant look beyond them. they are clingy and needy. they always drain your energy never afraid of asking help. They are alway right.

The Control Freak- This person lives on projects for ever because he or she wants perfection. they are picky and critical.  when they don't get their way, they become irritable. they hold on to the way they want things to be done. They never compromise. If the slightest thing is out of place this person will find it.

SteamRoller- blindly insensitive to others.  They exude a feeling of power, and personal authority. they live little room for  other peoples judgement.They are fiercely independent. they make rude comments. they are very stubborn and persistent, no matter what the obstacle.

The Wet Blanket- They are automatically negative people. they do not acknowledge if you accomplish a goal in life. they can be poisonous to any home or work environment.. they always expects the worse. they enjoy shooting down another persons ideas. They show little sign of personal growth.

The volcano- Builds steam and is ready to erupt. they are constantly looking over their shoulder to see who might be listening. They are plain rude, they are like a time bomb, can explode anytime. they have low level of empathy and very short fuse. shocking things sometimes can happen when this person gets mad.
                 To be continued.............

[Toldo]

 thanx sis amal for this good post , but is that it all ? or the positive ppl u will tell us in ur next post . oh yeah u said to be continued then,we are waiting the rest amal   .

Thanx again ....

[Amal]

Hello Brotha,
                     I thought if I let people know who the impossible people in our lives are, then we can understand their behavior and still maintain a therapeutic relationship with them turning negative aspect of their behaviors into positive or may be just learning how to live or deal with such characters.


The WorkHorse
                  Always pushes and is never satisfied. Most of these people are found in professional occupations. professionals like doctors, teachers, Lawyers and computer programmers. They are driven to do more, much than they are expected. they cannot settle for simple being good enough. They try to do several things at once. they have zero social life and they are very conscious.

The Green Eyed-Monster-
                                Seethes with envy, constantly compares him/her self to others, whats more than what other people have. The success of another can send this person to self pity. These person is happy when other people suffer.

The Flirt-
                This person starves for attention. puts on appearance of self confidence. This person is very protective.Most are preoccupied with appearance.

The chameleon
                Eager to please and avoids conflict. They take everything personally.His/her world revolves around pleasing others. cannot make decisions of their own. They don't rock the boat and avoid saying what they really think. They are consumed by the question what will people think of me?
 
Martyr
         They are forever the victim and wracked with self pity. They are worrisome, they feel like they are doomed, they got an attitude of "poor me". when you offer advice they say it wont work.  They are doing nothing to find solution to their problem.